Every day when I look at my dogs, and snuggle with them and love them and play ball with them, I can’t help to think about how every bit of their lives is determined by me. They really don’t have much of a choice about what they do. If I want to sit around all day, they sit around all day. If I want to train or play agility or nosework, they do it with me too. Fortunately, they are easy going spirits and also love to work and play and so far are enjoying everything I offer for them to do.
And they love me with all their little doggie hearts. I love them too, of course, I could not imagine not loving them. But they bond to me so strongly, follow me around, and even, like Connor, pout and are sad when I’m not home. Fortunately, I’m able to be home with them most of the time, but I do have to go do people things sometimes and leave them home by themselves.
I can only imagine the sad dogs of the world who love their caretakers so much, and bond to them so completely, and then are treated poorly or neglected. This breaks my heart. I’m sure it’s the same with human children. They have no choice but to love and bond to their caretakers.
I don’t know why this concerns me. Maybe I was involved in dog rescue for too many years and saw too many dogs treated poorly.
So what I’m just really trying to say is that we, each and every one of us, needs to be very aware of our dogs, their needs, their emotions, and their well-being, and treat them as best as we can. They will bond to us no matter what. They will love us no matter what. They deserve the absolute best from us in every single way. It’s our responsibility to give them the wonderful, safe, happy and healthy lives that they deserve.
Take good care of your dogs, your cats, and your kids, because they are the true innocents and give of themselves completely. Let’s honor that and give to them everything we can.